Malcolm Roberts Psychic Medium. Her husband, Daniel Schuler, has consistently denied that she used drugs or alcohol \"excessively\" and has made multiple national media appearances to defend his late wife and call for further investigation into other possible medical causes for her erratic driving. The accompanying blog to The Unsolved UK Podcast In the media, Diane has been presented as a super mum on the outside, but a closet alcoholic and drug addict underneath. *Twitter: http://twitter.com/kendallraeonytInstagram: http://instagram.com/kendallraeonytMy Zoo: http://instagram.com/milehigherzoo MILE HIGHER PODCAST (FREE TO LISTEN \u0026 WATCH!! It is worth noting that the witness statements of Dianes final moments were relayed from the memories of people who saw her for a split second as she was hurtling 70-80MPH towards them. There are times, however, when my gut screams out - and I will say what my gut feels. As a life coach, I am cautioned not to even dip a toe into the psychological realm. The three passengers of the TrailBlazer also died, bringing the total to eight. Eventually, she collided with an SUV, killing the four children she had in the car with her, the three adults in the other car, and herself. Jonathan Majors on Oscar Favorites, Bad Reviews, and the Road Trip That Made Him Realize He Was a Star, The Best Picture Race Got a Lot More Confusing This Week, Tom Cruise Made the Rounds This Week, but Other Oscar Nominees Got More Applause Than Top Gun: Maverick, How Michael B. Jordans Love of Anime Shaped Creed III Fight Scenes, Translating the Unconscious Into Images: The Cinematography of Bardo, Poker Face Takes Viewers on a Cross-Country Road Trip Without Leaving New York, The 50 Best Movies of 2022, According to 165 Critics from Around the World, All 81 Titles Unceremoniously Removed from HBO Max (So Far), 10 Shows Canceled but Not Forgotten in 2022. Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. (LogOut/ Stephen Spagnuolo, uncle of the girls who perished at the Taconic crash, speaks at a news conference Wednesday. She seemed to enjoy the responsibilities she shouldered, and actively sought them out. Daniel went to the campground the day before his family, according to police statement s.55. Andrew Jareckis debut film, a quiet, piercing masterpiece of the form, tells of another unassuming New York family, the Friedmans of Great Neck, whose patriarch, Arnold, and son, Jesse, are accused of child molestation in the 1980s. Change), You are commenting using your Facebook account. "Amidst all the uncertainty and speculation as to how and why this accident occurred, this is the absolute last thing that we ever would have expected. Rather than Daniel being neglectful, I suspect that this was due to Dianes natural secrecy and reluctance to discuss her feelings, as described by her friend, Christine, She infrequently talked about personal feelings., Diane was solely responsible for the family. On July 26, 2009, Diane Schuler left the New York campground where she was vacationing and began her trip home to Long Island with her two children and three nieces in tow. As enlightened as we think we are as a society, we're not. Instead, as in the case of Diane Schuler who killed eight people including herself on the Taconic Parkway last weekend, the living are speaking for her. Why did this accident happen? Small children, because they are so tied to. If only the dead could speak. I would speculate that rather than being a statement of disliking or lacking investment in his family life, it was the words of a man who was frustrated by the toll Dianes final actions had on their lives. Author: Jimmy's Girl, The Puzzle Bark Tree, Drifting, The Windmill. In the same way that Andrea Yates, a self-described "bad" mother could have simply left her children and walked away. From the police witness reports, many have interpreted Dianes behaviour in her last moments as measured, controlled, calculated, deliberate, and that she was determined to crash the vehicle. In the case of Diane Schuler, my gut is screaming that the woman was not a closeted drinker or alcoholic, but a woman who was grappling with severe depression -- finally destroyed by undiagnosed, unnoticed, and well-hidden mental illness? Some have speculated that Daniel left for the campground a day early to meet a woman there, but considering the family was close with the campground owner, Ann Scott, that would seem a risky endeavour. What possessed Diane to enter a one way exit ramp clearly marked Do Not Enter? -Discovered that weekend Daniel was having an affair. She signed herself up at the childrens school for chaperoning trips and participating in party donations, as described by her friend Noreen, She chaperones for school trips. Close filters. You know, and she worked full time. Diane presented a very stable, very responsible, and very controlled image. "I believe there is a strong fragrance of criminality. But why take a tragedy now and spin it into yet another "profile" that will give the media fodder for voyeuristic news until this story fades back into the landscape? My gut tells me that Diane Schuler was overwhelmed, sickened and ultimately strangled by demons so powerful they swallowed her, leaving her in madness.. This could be seen as a lack of investment in his wife, a disinterest in her welfare. I spoiled my Danny and she spoiled him. Eight people lost their lives that day, including Diane herself. She calmed him; she was the boss. A wonderful aunt." Is it possible that Diane Schuler was hiding her illness until she swigged enough alcohol from that open bottle found in her van that allowed her inhibitions to give way and end what was an extraordinary pain? Davis' Teaser: Damon Lindelof and Tara Hernandez's Nun Sci-Fi Drama Gets the Weirdest Trailer of the Year, 'The Last of Us' Episode 7 Is a Heartbreaking Vision of What Could Have Been, Oscar Voters Go International For Best Live Action Short Picks, 23 Controversial Film and TV Book Adaptations That Rankled Their Audiences and Authors. Why, when she was travelling with five children in the car, was she reported to be driving aggressively? Public support turned to vitriol, and Daniel was left in a position of having to defend every corner of his life. This post was published on the now-closed HuffPost Contributor platform. Dianes son, Bryan, survived the crash with a severe head trauma and broken bones, and was left recuperating in the hospital for three months. Witnesses who called 911 reported she was honking her horn, tailgating and flashing her headlights -- was that a cry for help or rage? (LogOut/ The kids clothes were ironed. Noreen stated, She was not only on time, the kids were dressed impeccably. Once Delia's husband and teen age children realize she's gone, they can barely give her vital statistics to the police - arguing over the color of her eyes, her height, her weight. Three men in the SUV she hit - Guy Bastardi, 49, Michael Bastardi, 81, and Daniel Longo, 74 - died. Very on top of thingsShe did it all. The crash was the worst fatal motor vehicle accident to occur in Westchester County since July 22, 1934, when a bus accident in Ossining claimed twenty lives.The ensuing investigation into the crash's cause received nationwide attention. The Hances indicated in the statement that they will cooperate with police, a day after cops complained the family wasn't talking. Sadly, it seems as though well never really know why Diane drove the wrong way down the interstate, without realising it, for almost two miles. s.24: "She stated that the driver was not swerving". Diane Schuler was a mother of two small children who loaded her own kids and three others into her minivan for a long drive home from a camping trip. Whilst Id agree Jay is more invested than even Daniel at this juncture, I dont suspect its due to malicious intent, attention seeking, or personality disorder. https://bit.ly/2J4kzJEMy Adult Colorin. Whilst Daniel and Diane worked opposite shifts- Diane would be at work whilst Daniel remained home all day- family and friends have described the marriage as happy. At 11:37, Diane called her brother, Warren Hance, the father of Dianes three nieces travelling with her, telling him they were stuck in traffic. They say what people frequently say when interviewed after a tragedy, "She was a lovely woman. Her five-year-old son Brian survived and is hospitalized. Her family, particularly her husband, immediately disputed these results, explaining that Diane rarely drank to excess, and that she would never have put her children in danger. You know, I know to me she just appeared very content, you know, very happy with the way her life was. No one had witnessed any discontent in the marriage, and there has been no speculation by those closely involved in the situation to suggest an affair was suspected or a factor. Diane had been solely in charge of every aspect of their lives for 13 years, and it must have been a bewildering task taking up those reins and figuring out the household alone. The Today Show went so far as to have a Diane Schuler near look alike (in my estimation) on the air this morning, confessing her secret alcohol abuse: She would drink during the day, and come night fall when her husband got home, drink wine with him and he just thought it was her first drink of the day. Laura Lewis is a true crime enthusiast and a blogger. Check out my podcast! https://bit.ly/2IJL4EXWant More True Crime? It makes no sense, they all say. She made all the decisions and Danny was like her oldest child. There has also been unfounded speculation that the weekend of the collision, Diane had discovered Daniel was having an affair. "Any person who was aware that she was drinking is an accomplice," said Irving Anolik, lawyer for the Bastardi and Longo families. Change). What an amazing guy I was going th. 2023 IndieWire Media, LLC. Daniel lost a daughter and a wife that day. On July 26, 2009, Diane Schuler left the New York campground where she was vacationing and began her trip home to Long Island with her two children and three nieces in tow. Perhaps it was what she harbored inside, what she didn't tell them, what she was afraid to confront in herself that ended in disaster. As a culture and society, we accept those with medical disorders that might result in tunnel vision -- another buzz word used to describe Schuler's state as she drove the wrong way on the Taconic Parkway. Download the app Get a free listing Advertise 0800 777 449. keywords location Search. Id suggest that its more plausible that Daniel had a rare night off work and decided to spend it preparing the camper for the large family groups arrival and enjoy his boat without children present. She was driving at around 85 miles per hour, along the wrong side of the Parkway, for 1.7 miles. The passengers of the third vehicle survived with minor injuries. Over the course of the next four hours, she would appear on a gas station security camera, pull over at a highway rest stop, dial three wrong numbers from the shoulder and drive nearly two miles at high speed in the wrong direction on the Taconic Parkway, eventually colliding head-on with an SUV. -Daniels clueless approach to Dianes health Like I said, Diane made all the decisions and he was like her oldest boy. It has been speculated that Diane grew to resent this role and was exhausted by shouldering the burden of the full responsibilities of the household. Her brother told her to stay where she was and that he would come to meet her, however follow-up calls he made werent answered. The admit she smoked a little pot now and then. No criminal charges are expected since Schuler died in the crash. Subscribe \u0026 Hit That Bell So You Dont Miss A Video! Diane Schuler's family is intent upon finding a medical reason for her actions: What if the reason is that mental illness is just as viable an explanation for behavior that unwittingly ends up in a disaster?